Although Pastor Kong Hee denies he was promoting his wife's career, in our opinion, he was still wrong for allowing her to do it. The Bible says he wants us to have no part with darkness (2 Cor. 6:14), we are to be holy (I Peter 1:16), completely different from the world. No first lady is ever excused for being any sort of secular music star. Since he is the head in his marriage, as the Word of God says in Ephesians 5:23, he had the power to tell her she could not be a pop star.
Ho Yeow Sun was supposed to be an example of a virtuous woman, so other women in their church would follow. If there is no first lady to show an example of purity, then how can we expect the women in the church to have any direction to become holy? Pastor Kong Hee knew this and there is no excuse. Although, he may not have been in charge, he still allowed and God never accept it.